How to Find the Clitoris

"This is really embarrassing to admit…but I can’t find my girlfriends clitoris. I mean, I think I hit it sometimes during fingering or sex but mostly I have no idea if I’m touching the right spot. I’m not sure if I’ve ever seen it either? She says it feels good when we do stuff, but I’ve noticed that she doesn’t have an orgasm very often.

What should it feel like and how do I know when I’m looking at it? I feel really stupid about this. Are there any proven ways to find her clitoris? I would appreciate it very much."

Jackson S.