The Clitoris and Sex
How to Stimulate Her Clitoris During Intercourse
Guys, if your gal finds it difficult to orgasm during intercourse you’re not in the minority. Surveys done for The Hite Report found that only 26% of women were able to reach orgasm through intercourse alone. Other studies come up with an even lower number.
Before you spend any time wishing that she were one of those 26%, you should know that it’s entirely possible to give her consistent orgasms during intercourse. Below you’ll find some great sex positions and a few helpful tricks.
Foreplay, foreplay, foreplay
If you spend enough time warming her up, she’ll be close to orgasm before you even start having sex. Give her plenty of oral clitoral stimulation and make sure you use your fingers on her clitoris before full-on sex.
If she gets enough foreplay, she will orgasm during sex – it’s that simple.
Positions that allow for maximum clitoral stimulation
Some positions are better for stimulating the clitoris than others. The following positions offer maximum access and pleasure for her.
- Rear entry - Virtually all rear entry or “doggy style” positions offer easy access to her clitoris for both of you. You control the pace, so slow it down if you’re approaching orgasm and she needs more clitoral stimulation.
- Woman on top - From on top she can find the perfect spot to grind her clitoris on you. She can also lean backward and allow you to massage it with your thumb or fingers.
- Reverse cowgirl - This is basically the same as woman on top, except she’s facing the other way. This changes the sensations but you both still have access to the clitoris.
The Coital Alignment Technique (CAT)
The CAT was designed specifically for clitoral stimulation and mutual orgasm. It’s a revised missionary position that uses a thrusting and rocking motion to stimulation the clitoris with every motion. Here are instructions on performing this technique.
- She lies on her back with you between her legs (as if you were assuming the missionary position). Your pelvis should be a bit higher than usual.
- As you enter her, have her wrap her legs around your waist. They should be bent slightly and her ankles should rest on your calves.
- Carefully lean forward and rest most of the weight of your body on her. Your own pelvis should be slightly higher than hers.
- The shaft of your penis should be firmly pressed against her clitoris. No thrusting from you! Instead she thrusts upwards while you rock slightly backwards.
- This will provide the perfect amount of stimulation for her. Rock gently back and forth in sync with each other until orgasm.
Vibrators and Sex Toys
A small vibrator will feel great for both of you (and almost guarantee an orgasm for her). Use it on her in any position that allows for clitoral access - or sandwich one between you in the missionary position. Be creative and have fun!
